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Alexandra Gene Duffy

Alexandra Gene Duffy

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Practice Areas

  • Matrimonial & Family Law
  • Divorce
  • Mediation
  • Child Custody
  • Spousal & Child Support
  • Matrimonial Agreements
  • Post-Judgement Modifications
  • Adoption


Alexandra "Xandy" Duffy is a dedicated and experienced matrimonial and family law attorney. Xandy's practice covers a wide range of matrimonial and family law matters, including divorce, post-judgement modifications including property distribution, child custody, spousal and child support, matrimonial agreements (prenuptial, post-nuptial, and separation), and adoption.

 Xandy's philosophy as a family attorney is firmly rooted in strategic, yet practical solutions. Her goal is to alleviate the burdens her clients face by facilitating resolutions that enable them to move forward with confidence. As a level-headed divorce practitioner, she believes in the effectiveness of non-adversarial strategies for dispute resolution. However, when mediation isn't possible, Xandy is a vigorous and fierce advocate for her clients, ensuring their voices are heard.

Clients value Xandy’s methodical and tactical approach, coupled with her calm and responsive demeanor. They depend on her to navigate their cases efficiently, with the assurance that she will remain responsive and keep them well-informed every step of the way.

Xandy earned her J.D. from Seton Hall Law School and her B.A. from Mount Holyoke College. She is a member of the Connecticut Bar Association, the Fairfield County Bar Association, and the Greenwich Bar Association.

Her dedication to giving back to the community is evident through her service on the Board of Directors of the Breast Cancer Alliance in Greenwich, CT and her volunteer work with Foundations in Education. Xandy resides in Greenwich, CT, with her husband and four children.


  • Seton Hall University School of Law, Newark, New Jersey
    • J.D.
  • Mount Holyoke College, South Hadley , Massachusetts
    • B.A., Bachelor of Arts

Bar Admissions

  • Connecticut, 2002

Pro-Bono Activities

  • Breast Cancer Alliance, Board Member
  • Foundations in Education

Professional Associations

  • Connecticut Bar Association
  • Fairfield County Bar Association