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Common mistakes when working with a custody evaluator

On Behalf of | Oct 2, 2024 | Child Custody |

Working with a custody evaluator is a necessary part of many child custody cases in Connecticut. The evaluator’s recommendations can significantly influence the court’s decisions. 

Avoiding common mistakes can help ensure a fair and favorable outcome.

Not being honest and transparent

Some parents try to hide information or present themselves in an unrealistic light. Custody evaluators are trained professionals who can often detect dishonesty. Providing accurate and truthful information builds credibility and trust.

Speaking negatively about the other parent

Badmouthing the other parent can reflect poorly on you. Custody evaluators look for parents who encourage a healthy relationship between the child and the other parent. Focus on demonstrating your own parenting strengths instead.

Failing to prepare adequately

Going into the evaluation without preparation is a mistake. Understand the process and what the evaluator will be looking for. Gather necessary documents, such as school records or medical reports, that support your case.

Not following Connecticut court guidelines

Connecticut law emphasizes the best interests of the child. Ignoring court orders or guidelines, such as visitation schedules, can harm your case. Show that you respect and follow legal requirements.

Displaying inappropriate behavior

Anger, hostility, or uncooperative behavior during evaluations can negatively impact the evaluator’s assessment. Maintain a calm and respectful demeanor throughout the process.

Neglecting the child’s needs and preferences

Custody evaluators prioritize the child’s well-being. Failing to consider the child’s needs or dismissing their preferences can be detrimental. Demonstrate that you understand and support your child’s best interests.

Overloading the evaluator with unnecessary information

Providing excessive or irrelevant information can overwhelm the evaluator. Be concise and focus on key points that highlight your parenting abilities.

Making the most of the evaluation process

Working with a custody evaluator requires a focus on the child’s best interests. By avoiding these common mistakes, you can present yourself positively and work toward a favorable custody arrangement.